When Your Toddler Schools You In Communication

When your toddler schools you in communication AKA the importance of having support for your relationship life The other day Erwan, Aeden and I were hanging out in the living room. Erwan and I were discussing a few topics related to work, and it was going from a...

People Get More Turned On On Bridges

People get more turned on, on bridges. I learned this at UCSC in 1990 from a psychology professor who studied love. A few weeks ago Alicia and I visited the University of California and walked across the narrow bridges which traverse strangely steep valleys. It...

How To Have A Great Relationship

Some version of how do you have a great relationship is the question Alicia and I get the most. My first few long term relationships ended because they or me, usually, both, didn’t have space for what was arising. We chose our judgments over the relationship. In...

The 3 Main Factors That Affect Our Sensual Energy

Yesterday after our morning sensual practices, I thought to myself, “That was fun, like really fun. Especially fun”. I was thinking about everything that made it fun, the factors that went into our sensual time being fun, looking at it in sort of an academic way. Not...