Fulfilling sacred vows vs “hot air”

This past weekend marked our 11th wedding anniversary! Both in celebration of our extraordinary partnership and in service of the critical transformation we are going through around social and racial justice as a global community, I am bringing attention to a powerful...

Erwan and I Had a Fight the Other Night

Erwan and I had a fight the other night. It was one of those where (later) we both turned around and said “How did THAT escalate so quickly!?” I am sure this won’t surprise you that one of the things we do after our fights is go over the play by play and discuss each...

How Singles Can Find Love in the New World

How in the world do you get into a romantic relationship with all this physical distancing? Are you feeling isolated? Well, you’re not alone if that’s the case. And it’s important to know that. Or maybe you have good friendships online and otherwise but the romance...

How Couples can Thrive in the New World

You don’t want to only survive this pandemic and shelter in place; you want to thrive in it! Couples don’t need to go stir crazy and become completely overwhelmed by the new logistics and the pressure cooker that shelter in place can be. Where is the release valve...

How Successful Couples Behave Differently During a Crisis

Alicia and I have noticed that successful couples behave quite differently when the pressure is on! And in many ways, today’s health (and for some people financial) crisis is a real pressure cooker. Some couples even have a kid or two or three at home and out of...

The Silver Lining for Couples in Quarantine

Erwan and I have received an influx of communications from couples over the last few weeks as everyone adjusts to being at home together all the time. The combination of the deep triggers we may be experiencing, the off-balance nervous systems, the change in...